Do a favour on someone and forget about it. It would be wonderful if that "someone" does a favour on a lesser one. And so on and so forth....
Good governance works in a similar manner.

If you like me, you will say " he's a good man"
If you dont like me, you will say,
He's
offensive
insensitive
selfish
miserly
extravagant
dirty
smelly
thoughtless
plain stupid
greedy.....
The faults are always endless